Courting and Relationship Advice

While we talk, are you the one for me?

How to identify the right person for you in conversation only

By

Mrs. Florence Oluwadare

  • A God-fearing person is the best, one that has intimate relationship with God Almighty the author of Relationship. Genesis 2:18 NLT “Then the LORD God said, it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” God will help you identify the person that is right for you.
  • Prayer is important. Holy Spirit directed prayers help to navigate through the unknown. God uses so many ways that are unique to individuals to bring people together. The moment you see who God has chosen for you, there will be something that would make you want to see each other more and talk more. These little and unique things are important to look out for. 
  • A Selfless and respectful person would make a great partner. It usually takes time to know if a person is selfless and respectful, therefore with discernment and paying attention during conversations, these qualities will be revealed to you. 
  • What to watch out for during conversation, or things that must be addressed if noticed during conversation.
  1. Greetings and self-introduction (are they respectful?) 
  2. Ability to listen
  3. Education (are they boastful or humble?)
  4. Job (Know what they do for living)
  5. Social life (friends and co-worker)
  6. Integrity (your yes is “yes” and no is “no”)
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